Who’s Full Of BS, Republicans Or Democrats?

by Houston Vetter - DocResults on March 5,

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If you listen to my conservative friends you’ll hear them say the liberals are full of BS and if you listen to my liberal friends you will hear them say the conservatives are full of BS. Which of my friends should you listen to? Which ones are right? Who’s full of BS and who’s not?

Well it depends…. It depends on your BS whether you think the liberals or conservatives are full of BS.

No matter who you think is full of BS you will always be correct because, whether or not you think BS is a bad thing and no matter the meaning you give to the letters BS, those letters always, at the deeper level, stand for Belief System.

So the answer to the question of who’s full of BS is always… everyone.

Unfortunately we don’t think it is BS when it agrees with our own BS-Belief System and that is what creates most of the problems in communication. Not only with different political parties but also friends, family and loved ones as well as business relationships.

If we ever get to the point where we can accept the actuality ‘that what I think is true is really just my BS-Belief System’ then we can begin to be, do and have more of what will actually make us happy.

Because we have accepted our own BS as true we judge people, places and things, as …

  • flawed,
  • inferior,
  • not worthy,
  • needing to change,
  • needing to improve,
  • needing to do this different,
  • needing to do that different

And if that’s not bad enough because we think our BS is true we do the same thing to ourselves that we do to others. We think we are flawed and need to improve this or that. Not only do we think others are wrong, we also think we are wrong as well.

The longer I live the more I come to realize how most everything is deeply influenced, managed and controlled by the first two Forgotten Fundamentals of An Exquisite Life

  1. The Individual IS the Meaning Maker. Nothing has any meaning to the individual until the individual adds it. As an individual you do not have to believe anything. However, whatever you do believe WILL BECOME, your perceived and felt reality. In other words your BS.
  2. Energy flows, builds, charges and strengthens where you attention goes. This is how everything gets manifested.

As an example of how our BS makes one thing right or good and another wrong or bad the actuality is since the Individual (you/me) is the Meaning Maker. The Individual is the one who adds the yin/yang (+/-). Without the individual to give yin a meaning of better/worse, right/wrong, different from yang, they aren’t separate both yin and yang are whole (one) and has zero meaning.

Until the Meaning Maker (the individual-you/me) ADDS a meaning there is no inherent meaning.

Now here is where it gets interesting. Even without giving any energy a meaning (+/-) all yin and yang energy moves through the individual.

The only difference is when one is aligned (neutral, giving no meaning) one can feel EVERY energy, every yin/yang, and every label of +/- as it will move through your system. And yet there is no charge, no hook nothing for the energy to hang onto so it flows right through the system.

And here is the beautiful part of that when you can experience every e-motion, energy in motion without slowing it down (i.e. adding a meaning) the result of this is best described as bliss. (Which is also an emotion that if you do not add meaning to will flow as well. Energy flows, that’s the nature of duality. Adding meaning stops or more accurately slows the energy down in an attempt to make it solid which blocks the other energy one could call bliss from flowing.

Remember it is not yin or yang, it is yin and yang and there is the individual who adds, or not, meaning to either. And then which either the individual puts attention on… that builds, charges and strengthens and becomes one’s experience.

To practically apply this let’s use an example from Don Miguel Ruiz’s The Four Agreements…

Nothing other people do is because of you.  It is because of themselves.  All people live in their own dream, in their own mind; they are in a completely different world from the one we live in.  When we take something personally, we make the assumption that they know what is in our world, and we try to impose our world on their world.

Even when a situation seems so personal, even if others insult you directly, it has nothing to do with you.  What they say, what they do, and the opinions they give are according to the agreements they have in their own minds.  Their point of view comes from all the programming they received during domestication.

If someone gives you an opinion and says, ‘Hey, you look so fat,’ don’t take it personally, because the truth is that this person is dealing with his or her own feelings, beliefs, and opinions.  That person tried to send poison to you and if you take it personally, then you take that poison and it becomes yours.  …

When you take things personally, then you feel offended and your reaction is to defend your beliefs and create conflicts.  You make something big out of something so little, because you have the need to be right and make everybody else wrong. …

It is not important to me what you think about me, and I don’t take what you think personally.  I don’t take it personally when people say, ‘Miguel, you are the best,’ and I also don’t take it personally when they say, “Miguel, you are the worst.’ …

No, I don’t take it personally.  Whatever you think, whatever you feel, I know is your problem and not my problem.  It is the way you see the world.  It is nothing personal, because you are dealing with yourself, not with me.  Others are going to have their own opinion according to their belief system, but nothing they think about me is really about me, but it is about them. …

If you live without fear, if you love, there is no place for those [negative] emotions.  If you don’t feel any of those emotions, it is logical that you will feel good.  When you feel good, everything around you is good.  When everything around you is great, everything makes you happy.  You are loving everything that is around you because you are loving yourself. … You live in that state of bliss where everything is so wonderful, and everything is so beautiful. In that state of bliss you are making love all the time with everything you perceive.

Here is a game you can play. At first you can play this whenever you get upset or you feel emotionally charge. Simply ask yourself, “Did I just make that meaning up?” And of course the answer is always yes because, you are the meaning maker. So what other meaning could you make up that would feel better than how your feeling now?

The game is to make three different meaning for the same events and only one of them can be negative. After you have played that game for a while you can ask yourself after every thought, did I just make that meaning up? So now, who’s full of BS?

To Your Best,
Houston
Dr. Vetter – DocResults.com
P.S. If you want to full out play with making your BS-Belief System work for you rather than against you go to  http://docloves.me/selfworth
 

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FACEBOOK CHANGES

by Mary Sloane Social Media Expert
 
Yes, Facebook is doing it again.New Rules, New Sizes, New Tabs, New Focus and New OpportunitiesThe airwaves are a twitter with the News:  “Timeline” is coming to Facebook Pages on March 30th. Not  just your profile page but also your Business or Cause or Personality Page suddenly has a Timeline.So what is Facebook thinking and how do they think these changes will increase their profit?   Perhaps by forcing us to use Paid Ads more?  That is certainly one speculation.However, like all changes that we encounter in our businesses, we must figure out how we can use them to our benefit.  Personally the new “Cover” will give us much more room to tell our story in picturesHere’s 3 of the Biggest Changes:1. The Default landing page tab option is going away when you switch to Timeline. No longer can you Welcome people to your pages by default

What does this mean? 

It means that if you have a custom landing page tab installed on your page, your visitors will no longer land on it automatically.  Now by default all traffic to your main page URL will land directly to the page with giant Timeline cover at the top.

2. Our Cover picture can no longer include our web site URL or our address or phone number, all that has to be put below in the ”Information”. But you Cover Picture is huge so you can tell more of a story in it.  I suspect that collages will be very popular  on covers.  Take a Look at Macy’s page to see the new Page in action www.facebook.com/Macys  Clearly they got pre-warned

3. We also cannot tell people to Like our Page.  Calls to action on our Cover are not allowed.  But below that Cover picture you can put more photos and videos with intriguing commands FREE will always attract attention, and once they click through to see what is FREE you can tell them to like your page in order to get the FREE Gift  Notice Macy’s Win a Million image and if you follow that link you find the Call to action Like our Page

And you can send people to that Page from Facebook ads and other links.  So we still can send traffic directly to those apps where we have our call to action and set up our capture page to get people’s email addresses  So perhaps this change isn’t really a big deal.

What to Do Today

Nothing!  Wait

WAIT to switch over to Timeline until March 30th. This will give FB time to finalize their policy and hopefully work out all the bugs.

Follow Facebook and see how this changes.

Here’s the link to the official Timeline for Pages guide from Facebook.

https://www.facebook.com/about/pages

(If you already switched, don’t panic)

If you want to let me know how you are able to change your page to capitalize on these changes send me an email mary@topmarkmediastrategies.com  or come to Facebook and let’s talk about it www.facebook.com/topmarkmediastrategies

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